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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

To Change or Not to Change

This is not a complaint, but just a chance to share-really-no complaints. Why the need for this post? It's because I've had a few too many phone calls or emails from people saying that they can't do it all. Huh? In all of my classes and seminars, I ALWAYS say that everything is not for EVERYONE. No one size fits all. Use the ones that work for you and don't, for the ones that don't. Sounds pretty simple, doesn't it? Surprisingly, it's not. People want to change, but may find that it's difficult to do so. That change can become even more difficult if you are trying to incorporate too many life changes at once. It's not mandatory that you follow any of the advice, suggestions or tips I provide. You're a free thinker, after all (SMILE). I simply provide my opinion and insight and gently suggest that you could benefit from my experiences. Okay, maybe, not so gently-but mildly suggest that you could benefit from my experiences. Okay, in some cases I may strongly suggest that you incorporate into your daily life some of the things I write about (SMILE), but I never say you have to do it. Seriously, anything that I write about is done to share the knowledge I've gained-it's a pleasure to share the method and hear about how you've made it work for you (or chosen not to and are okay with that decision).

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I am Dr. Darnita L. Payden, Executive Director/Owner of Dr. DClutter™ Life Management, a division of PreciousOnes™ LLC. I have a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology and over 20 years of experience working to help clients discover their strengths and talents. Having worked as a therapist, college professor, grief specialist and trainer, I have encountered in my journey many of the issues my clients may face. I have a sincere desire to help you find clarity, organization and independence in your life and environments. I know that life can be hectic, but I desire to help my clients bring as much order, peace and enjoyment back into their lives as is possible. What separates me from the norm? I focus on the client from a holistic perspective. I realize that most people desire a functional and an organized life, but may simply need support, understanding and information about why they have the habits or tendencies that have led to disorganization. I do not perform “quick fixes” or provide “one-size-fits-all” guidance, but I strive to provide strategies to my clients that will be life changing and useful for a lifetime. Dr. DClutter™ is a name well earned!!

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