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Another Way

2012-01-27T07:00:00.000-05:00

So, you say you don't like eating veggies and haven't had a piece of fruit in ages? Well, there's always another way. Try drinking them instead. This my personal recipe with ingredients I had on hand, but feel free to experiment and personalize it with your own favorites (or soon to be favorites). Fresh is ideal, but frozen (which is as close to fresh as you can get) and canned work as well. Try to use unsweetened canned fruits in the natural juice to reduce the sugar and rinse canned products to remove some of the sodium. You can also just buy the reduced or no sodium varieties. So, no more excuses not to “eat” your veggies and fruit. Go for it and share whether you liked it or not.

Oh, it helps to have a high quality blender and the smoothie tastes better the second day. Hooray for leftovers, a great way to save time, while doing something that is great for you health!!

Please, share your recipe with me.

2 cups of almond milk

1 cup fresh spinach

1 cup fresh Spring Mix greens

10 cherry tomatoes

1 can of unsweetened pears

1 can of unsweetened mandarin oranges

Just a note, I've used apples, blueberries, grapefruit, grapes, peaches, and strawberries, as well as other fruits. Nuts too such as cashews, almonds and macadamia.

Makes about 5 cups. Mix and chill or freeze.

Delish!! Enjoy!!

Give 'em the Boot

2012-01-25T07:00:00.001-05:00

I love shoes-it's just who I am (and I make no apologies :). Sadly, sometimes a fav pair suffers a little damage for the cause, but they're still in good condition otherwise, so I want to save them. Here are just a few pics to show a quick, CHEAP and changeable way to get a little longer wear. You can't keep a shoe fashionista down-even when you mess with her shoes!!

The boot before-just a little tear going on there.

Just a little secret-that's double stick tape!!

I keep it on hand always. By using this, I can easily remove and “redesign” anytime I want. I chose white for the contrast against the dark boot and the lace, but you could easily change the color simply by using a marker.

Ta da!! A cute boot, with black lace.

The full view and ready to go!!

Good Thing??

2012-01-23T07:00:00.000-05:00

Too much of a good thing can be bad; too little of a great thing even worse; have to find a happy middle.

The Path

2012-01-20T07:00:00.000-05:00

My clients often tell me that they're unsure of the path they took that lead to their current state of disorganization. Just as important as knowing what path you took that lead to your current state of disorganization, is focusing on the path that will lead (and keep) you out of it for the long term.

Verbal Sunshine

2012-01-18T07:00:00.001-05:00

You know I love "liquid sunshine", but a newbie is here-"A compliment is verbal sunshine."

(Giant Food Store sign-really).

Dr. King

2012-01-16T07:00:00.002-05:00

Today we celebrate the birthday of a historic figure, Dr. Martin Luther King. We are a country that has celebrated great change, so let's not stop now!! Take the time to remember Dr. King's dream and also make the world a much better place than it was last year at this time. Dream on-still!!

Excuse??

2012-01-13T07:00:00.000-05:00

What excuse, if any, would you use if an unexpected guest asked for a tour of your home and it wasn't in the “shape” you'd like?

Unacceptable

2012-01-11T07:00:00.001-05:00

Teach our girls and boys that they are too precious to be beaten up or broken down by anyone!!

Shift

2012-01-09T07:00:00.000-05:00

In order to affect lasting change there has to be a shift in your behavior, language and thinking.

Just One

2012-01-05T07:00:00.002-05:00

Every journey starts with just one step.

Don't Believe It

2012-01-04T07:00:00.000-05:00

The problem is not failing, but accepting that failure is the end. Never!!

Not About Me

2012-01-03T07:00:00.003-05:00

I've found that doing something for others makes me feel better when life is not treating me as kindly as it could or I'm experiencing a rough season. It takes the spotlight off of my problems and benefits someone else and that's a feeling that's priceless. It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture either. A simple phone call to ask someone about their day or offering to run an errand or make a dish for dinner and sharing it. Small kindnesses really can have a great impact and the rewards can be endless!!

New Year's Resolutions

2012-01-02T07:00:00.001-05:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! WELCOME 2012!!

Every year around this time people make their New Year's Resolutions. You know the ones: I will lose weight; I will quit this or that. You manage to stick to your resolutions for a minute and then you return to old habits. Ah, the comfort zone.

Well, this year, let's be different. Don't make any New Year's Resolutions. "What, no New Year's Resolutions??!! Yes, she's finally gone off the deep end". No, I have not, not really. Instead of putting the pressure of changing multiple habits in your life because it's a New Year, focus on one that you really want to change. "But isn't that a resolution"? Possibly, but I don't want you to think about it as a "New Year's Resolution"-that's a loaded phrase and one that might cause you to set unrealistic expectations. Change your language and your thinking and your behavior will change; change your thinking and your language and your behavior will change. It may sound like a simple play on words, but since the majority of people break or abandon resolutions before the month is over, why add the pressure? Instead of saying and thinking, "I will become organized this year", say and think (and do), "I will take these steps to become more organized this year and then list them (and do them). This is a great example: I will join a gym to lose 10 pounds (you know 10 is the magic number for some reason); I will join a gym to lose 10 pounds, go everyday and work out for one hour; I will join a gym to lose 10 pounds and change my eating habits by eating breakfast, lunch, dinner and two snacks." See, those are very specific and planned goals.

Have a wonderfully functional year-one day at a time!!

Reminder

2012-01-01T00:01:00.010-05:00

Here's the first of the new year change-your-calendar-reminder!! C'mon over to 2012!!

Photo credit-Dennis Flaherty in the Youth Group Promotions calendar.

Beautiful-I have two!!

Happy New Year!!

2012-01-01T00:01:00.001-05:00

Happy New Year!! Welcome 2012!!

End of the Year Clearance

2011-12-30T07:00:00.001-05:00

Doesn't it seem that the year just started and it's almost the end of 2011? I hope you were able to accomplish many of the things you wanted, but if not, prayerfully, there's always next year (well, technically, that's tomorrow, but let's stay in the moment). Take inventory of those things that made your life worth living and made you joyous and fulfilled-keep those close. For things that made your life feel disorganized and difficult, throw those out!! Take this time to let go of the old things that cluttered your life and usher them out with the old year. Rid yourself of negativity, disorganization, poor time-management and habits that just aren't working for you. Have your own end-of-the-year-clearance!!

Recycled Christmas Cards

2011-12-29T07:00:00.002-05:00

Oh the joy of receiving Christmas cards with their inspirational sayings and beautiful pictures. You rush to put them on the coffee table or mantel for all to see, but then what to do with them when Christmas is over?? So as not to add to the after Christmas clutter, you can just throw them away. "Oh no, did she just say throw away my Christmas cards??" Okay, take a breath. Here's a quick, cheap and easy idea. You can create an ornament for next year by using the picture and attaching it to a pretty piece of ribbon or string. Embellish as you wish using pinecones or candy canes as dividers and then hang it from a door or in a window.

Keep Giving

2011-12-28T07:00:00.001-05:00

Take this time to declutter and bless someone else by donating an item or two (or more). Make sure it's an item that's still in good condition and is usable. If not, trash or recycle it instead. Not only will you continue in the Christmas spirit, but you'll also free up valuable space in your home.

Contain Your Joy

2011-12-27T07:00:00.000-05:00

You're aware of the popular plastic multi-gallon storage containers, right? You know the ones that have the tops and hold tons of "stuff"? Here's a concept that usually brings looks of disbelief and confusion when I say it in my seminars. They are not necessarily for organization. "What??!!" They’re for storage, thus the name "Storage Container". "Huh??" Yeah, that's usually what I hear from people. What I mean is that a storage container is not designed to hold things that will be used on a regular basis but is intended for those items that will be cycled in and out of use within the year. They should not be used to hold things that you don’t want to discard and that allow you to justify your clutter. Christmas decorations and seasonal clothing-yes; broken toys and mildewed books-no. Especially forbidden are "these" if you already have a problem with clutter:
You can't see what's inside, so you'll be less likely to use the contents. Yes, I know, they're on sale every year and you just can’t pass up a bargain, but try. One exception? Clear. Yes, if you can see it, you're more likely to use it. If you must indulge, promise me you'll do this simple exercise. Create a list that you will attach to the visible side of the container that lists EVERYTHING on the inside. I know, I know, that will take time, but just think how you'll impress your family and friends when you can actually find your stuff!!

Undecorating-again

2011-12-26T18:16:00.002-05:00

When do you "undecorate" for Christmas? The day after, in the new year or another time?

Undecorating

2011-12-26T07:00:00.001-05:00

Okay, it's the day after Christmas and you're faced with the task of undecorating (is that even a word ??!!). If you're like me, you'll leave your decorations up at least until the end of the first week of January, but I know there are some die-hards who tackle the task the day after. Did you enjoy the task of decorating this year? Probably not if you had to buy new decorations because you couldn't find yours or you became so frustrated with trying to untangle or find your decorations. If you did not feel so jolly, here are a few ideas that will make life easier after the holiday season and for next year.

a. To protect your Christmas wreaths, wrap them in clear garbage bags and hang them (if you have the space in your storage area). If not, remember the idea of using those large gallon trashcans to layer them. For an added layer of protection and to prevent crushing, cut cardboard inserts a little smaller than the actual wreath and lay those between each one.

b. Use the paper towel tubes to wrap lights, garland and if you must, old ribbon. Cut a slit in the top and nestle the beginning of the string for easy unwrapping next year.

c. For delicate items, such as small ornaments or figurines, try using an old egg carton or a box with compartments. If you can't find one, you can make your own with a box and cardboard dividers.

Of course, I prefer the clear containers, but if you promise to make a list of the contents, boxes are acceptable.

d. If you decorate more than one room, make your life easier and label each box to the corresponding room. That way, next year it'll be easier to know which decorations are for your living room, dining room or outdoors.

e. Of course if you've kept the original packaging, you won't need these handy, dandy ideas, but if not…happy "undecorating".

Merry Christmas!!

2011-12-25T07:00:00.002-05:00

I pray you're having the best Christmas ever. Merry Christmas!!

Christmas Pics

2011-12-23T20:11:00.000-05:00

A Gingerbread man in a golden basket; a colorful "heart" of bows and goodies; and winter pinecones and flowers with a warm candle glow.

These little QT's swing ther hips as they belt out a jolly rendition of "Frosty the Snowman"!!

The Mr. and Mrs. welcome you home with the warm, inviting glow of their candles. They open and close their arms, as if to say, "Welcome"!!Just a few pics. Hope you enjoy them!!

Photos property of Dr. DClutter™ Life Management and should not be used without permission.

Picture Perfect

2011-12-22T07:00:00.000-05:00

You've decorated your house just the way you want it. B. Smith and Martha Stewart would be proud. Why not make it easier for next year? Take pictures of your rooms and use them as a road map for decorating next year. You don't have to follow the same plan each year, but wouldn't it be less stressful to have a guideline for next season? You can also make great Christmas cards by adding the pictures and a personalized note.

It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas

2011-12-21T07:00:00.001-05:00

I know people who decorate the day after Thanksgiving (my sister Sharon), but even I don't have the energy to tackle that task so close after the holiday. I'm still recovering from my turkey coma. How many of you are with me? You too have wreaths and bows to hang, Christmas lights to string and trees to decorate. On the other hand, how many of you does this describe? You can't find your decorations, so you have to trek to the store and pay full price for more decorations that you already have, but can't find. Or you become so frustrated with untangling last year's lights that buying new ones seems reasonable? Make the pledge right now that next year will be different. This year, you'll take the time to carefully store your lovingly labeled and masterfully organized decorations so that you can find them next year. You'll save the boxes for those delicate glass blown bulbs and carefully place each one gently back in it's proper space. You'll take the time to wrap your lights around a simple piece of cardboard to ensure they won't become a tangled mess. You'll take the time to store each wreath in a simple container or if you have multiple wreaths, you'll layer them in a plastic trashcan with a lid (cheap, but effective). Yes, you'll give yourself one of the greatest gifts you'll ever receive…ORGANIZATION. You'll thank me later.

First to Last

2011-12-20T07:00:00.001-05:00

It's the last month of 2011!! What things have you procrastinated about only to wake up and realize that the year is almost over? Go ahead, I'll wait because if you're like most, that list could get pretty long. No need to fret, however, because you can still accomplish some of those tasks. Prioritize and get that long "To Do" list down to a manageable size. Tackle the larger projects first and make sure you have a plan of attack. Write it down. More importantly, don't become discouraged and locked into a mind battle against time-you'll lose. Instead, take the position that there are only so many hours (and days) left that you have to work with and get started. Enjoy the journey.

Joyous 22

2011-12-19T07:00:00.000-05:00

Twenty-two ways to say joyous: blessed, happy, blithe, cheerful, delighted, ecstatic, exuberant, festive, glad, gleeful, heartwarming, jocular, jolly, joyful, jubilant, merry, mirthful, pleased, spirited, upbeat, vigorous, wonderful. Feel free to add your own!!

Problem Personality Type?

2011-12-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

Are you a problem-solver or a problem-procrastinator? How do you determine which one most closely resembles your personality? Glad you asked!! Let's use a broken appliance as an example. Suppose something suddenly broke-what would you do? As a problem-solver, you'd likely play detective by twisting knobs and pushing buttons, plugging and unplugging the appliance to make certain it's truly broken. Hope does spring eternal for both personality types. Once you've determined that it's truly broken, you'd start researching to find a qualified technician to do the repair (unless you already have one on speed dial), comparing a few to get the best deal or a free estimate. Then you'd actually follow-up by setting an appointment. Problem solved (you hope). On the other hand, a problem-procrastinator would likely lament about the broken appliance, but that would probably be the end of the effort.. Of course, the worry, aggravation and inconvenience would linger, but wouldn't be enough to compel you to action. So for months, you'd stick to your avoiding behaviors until the pressure became too overwhelming for you to stay in that place of inaction (or not). So, how to overcome the problem-procrastinator personality? Force yourself to push pass the desire to remain complacent and then follow-through. Don't allow inaction to even be a part of the equation. As soon a problem arises, jump on it-no breaks allowed. Set a concrete plan of action and time frame for completion. Enlist others to help you stay on target. It's harder to procrastinate when you have others aware of your behaviors. Ask them to help you remain accountable. If all else fails, envision how proud you'll feel that you're no longer a problem procrastinator. Self-motivation works!! I never said it was easy, but it is feasible to change.

Walk Away?

2011-12-14T07:00:00.000-05:00

Are you willing to "walk" if the current companies with whom you have services charge "too much"?? I am. Recently, my telephone company raised their rates and lost me as a customer. It took about an hour from research for a new company to order completion. I expended a little effort and some time, but saving money is worth it and I will be able to save HUNDREDS of dollars. Customer loyalty is a great thing, but I like saving money more.

Adjust Your Focus

2011-12-13T07:00:00.001-05:00

It's easy to sit, worry and focus on what you don't have, but it takes less energy to focus on all that you DO have. Another benefit? You might just see how wonderfully blessed and rich your life really is. Try it!!

Unintended Perception

2011-12-12T07:00:00.001-05:00

Do you know what it "says" to someone who is depending on you to follow through, but you choose not to do so? It indicates that your time and needs are more important than theirs. Certainly, most of us would NEVER verbalize this thought and that's generally not the message you wish to convey. But that's the unintended perception when you are lax in completing a favor or task. Most people don't want to have to constantly remind you to follow through-makes them seem like a "nag". However, if that's the only recourse available to them, what would you suggest they do??It's easier to just follow through, don't you think??

Pick One™ System Explained

2011-12-08T07:00:00.001-05:00

Most of you seemed to grasp the concept really well. Congratulations!! Didn't I say it was simple?? Each day challenged you to focus on one aspect of your life in four areas and START-start changing, start discussing, or start thinking about your life in a different way. What you did with the challenged area was up to you, but hopefully you decided that if change was necessary to START that day. Day one was about choosing a behavior to focus on and change (or think about or discuss). Day two saw you considering your language. No not learning a foreign one (although that could be a great exercise), but more about the negativity that may have been a hindrance to you and changing your internal and external speech. Day three focused on changing, identifying or discussing your thoughts. Again, negativity to be replaced by more positive and actionable thoughts. Finally, day four was about your physical space. If clutter and disorganization reign in your life, day four's challenge was about starting the process of removing that issue from your life. By picking one "spot" you reduced the likelihood of becoming overwhelmed by a large project and reverting to the old habit of doing nothing because it all seemed too much. Day four made it manageable. See, that wasn't so complicated, was it? While it may have been challenging, as change often is, I hope that the ability to make small changes on a daily basis was helpful and that you will continue to institute the Pick One™ system in your daily life!!

Pick One-Day Four

2011-12-07T07:00:00.001-05:00

Today's acronym and its meaning: P.A.S.S.™. Pick a Spot and Start.

Dr DClutter™ and the Ten-Minute Tidy™!!

2011-12-06T14:27:00.001-05:00

Who's willing to give me 10? Check out TimeTimer.com for an ingenious product (and a nice article to inspire you in just ten minutes to boot!!) http://bit.ly/DrDarnitaTenMinTidy

Pick One-Day Three

2011-12-06T07:00:00.000-05:00

Today's acronym and its meaning: P.A.T.S.™. Pick a Thought and Start.

Pick One-Day Two

2011-12-05T07:00:00.000-05:00

Today's acronym and its meaning: P.A.L.S.™. Pick a Language and Start.

Pick One-Day One

2011-12-01T07:00:00.001-05:00

Today's acronym and its meaning: P.A.B.S.™. Pick a Behavior and Start. Day two on Monday!!

Pick One™ Intro

2011-11-30T07:00:00.002-05:00

For four days, I'll present a four letter acronym and its meaning, that will help you change your behavior, thinking, language and space. The concept is so simple that at first glance it may appear TOO simple. Yet it's so powerful if you commit to doing it-you will see results. Notice I said “IF YOU COMMIT TO DOING IT”. It won't just happen-it's not the “O” pill I just wrote about. But the concept works, if you follow-through. I'll ONLY present the acronym and the meaning, no commentary or explanation-it's that simple. Of course, if you have questions, please feel free to ask. So, starting tomorrow-bring it!! Your commitment, that is.

Smead Project Organizer

2011-11-29T07:00:00.002-05:00

What do a large meal and a large project have in common?? They’re both easier to “digest” if you take small “bites”. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by looming projects, the most efficient way to tackle them is to break them into manageable parts. Whether you’re a small business owner, or the CEO of your family, Smead’s Project Organizer can help. With its pre-printed pages, you can easily list the project description, date (start and completion), task, action and follow-up, as well as the names and contact information of those you may need to keep abreast of your progress (or those helping you take those small bites). If that wasn’t enough, there are 10 pockets to store paperwork associated with the project and a place to write more notes. It’s a one-stop-source of organizational bliss!! Of course, you still have to put in the effort, but at least Smead’s Project Organizer can help you stay on track.

Click on images for a larger preview.

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An App for That?

2011-11-28T07:00:00.000-05:00

There seems to be an app for everything, but what if you don't have a smartphone. Is there an app for that? I thought I was being clever by asking, but it turns out that there are apps for non-smartphone users too. I know for you techno savvy folks, it may be impossible to believe that some of us still have phones that are “not smart”, but we do exist. So, for those of you, who like me have not yet jumped on the smartphone bandwagon, there's still hope!! SMILE!!

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2011-11-24T07:00:00.001-05:00

Be certain to take the time to acknowledge the many blessings you’ve received, especially on this day. Save some turkey for me!!

Be Thankful!!

2011-11-23T18:16:00.000-05:00

We @DrDClutter are taking time to be with family & friends. We'll be with you all "sometime" after Thanksgiving, once we recover from our turkey, stuffing and dessert induced trance!! Be blessed and enjoy the holiday in whatever way pleases you, with family and friends or without, volunteering or reflecting; make it count, make it memorable, make it special, make it thankful!!

Fashionable?

2011-11-23T07:00:00.000-05:00

Did I miss a memo? When did it become fashionable not to return telephone calls (if a voicemail is left) or emails? It doesn't have to become a long, drawn out conversation (or reply), but a simple acknowledgment of receipt, "Hey, I got your voicemail or email, and I'll be in touch.", would certainly be welcomed. Oh, yes, throw in a return text too-for those of you who use that sort of thing. Relic here.

Sad Song

2011-11-22T07:00:00.000-05:00

My dog ran away, all my bills are due and my car just got a flat tire. Woe is me!! Do you have people in your life whose lives are starting to sound like a bad country western song, where all they do is complain? Do you feel as if you're more a therapist than a friend? Have you started looking at your caller ID and ignoring their calls? It takes effort to be a great friend, but when you feel you're doing more giving than receiving, or the relationship feels lopsided (and not in your favor) or you are drained after an encounter with a friend, it may be time to rethink the relationship. Supporting a friend in the time of need is part of being a good friend, but a relationship should not leave you feeling used or upset most of the time.

Insomnia cure??

2011-11-21T08:37:00.001-05:00

I've discovered that the cure for insomnia is exhaustion!! Work all day, sleep all night. Who knew??

Holiday Madness Busters

2011-11-21T07:00:00.001-05:00

Thanksgiving is Thursday and Christmas will be here before you know it. If you've procrastinated and are feeling a bit overwhelmed, this article offers a few simple tips and strategies to help you enjoy the holidays.

Click below to read the article:
http://bit.ly/HolidayMadnessBusters

Behavior Tax

2011-11-17T07:00:00.000-05:00

Here in DC, we have a five cent "bag tax" which is charged for each paper or plastic bag you use from a retailer when shopping. The goal is to reduce the number of bags consumers throw away that eventually show up in our streets and waterways. The outcome has been a reported reduction in the number of paper and plastic bags and more consumers opting for reusable bags. That caused me to think about what price I would be willing to pay to change a not-so-functional behavior. Hmm-could be pretty expensive, depending on what that behavior was (SMILE). What price would you be willing to pay if you were charged to change a not-so-functional behavior?

Tackle It!!

2011-11-16T07:00:00.002-05:00

A beautiful liquid sunshine day-perfect day for getting things done!! What are you going to tackle?

The “O” Pill™

2011-11-16T07:00:00.001-05:00

If there was a "miraculous" pill to living an organized life, I'd bottle and sell it for millions, but sadly, one doesn't exist. What does exist is your ability to change. Simply institute one small change a day or week and in no time, you will find yourself on a new path-one that leads to a highly functional life. It's not rocket science, but it does require effort and a willingness to stay the course when faced with a challenge. You can do it!!

Small Change

2011-11-15T07:00:00.001-05:00

What small change can you institute today that will bring organization and improve function in your day? Perhaps limiting the time spent on the computer, or telephone. Or tackling one side of that desk to reclaim valuable "real estate" (and the other side tomorrow). Maybe it's going through your closet to rid yourself of your "maybe" clothes. You know-those things that you consistently say, "Maybe I'll wear those pants "someday." What are some others that you can think of to tackle?

Joy Theft

2011-11-14T07:00:00.001-05:00

Don't let anyone hinder joy from entering (and staying permanently) in your life. You're too valuable and life is too short to entertain miserable, joy stealing people!!

Veteran's Day

2011-11-11T07:00:00.001-05:00

Join me in honoring those brave souls who have and continue to defend our country and the world. We salute you all!!

Waiting?

2011-11-10T07:00:00.001-05:00

If you're waiting for someone else to make you happy, hunker down, it's going to be a long wait. Instead, find ways to enhance your own life. But don't make the mistake of thinking it has to be a life-shattering, Earth moving experience; it doesn't. Just start small with "doable" changes.

Give and Take

2011-11-09T07:00:00.000-05:00

Short, sweet and to the point-it's the way relationships should work.

Life's Annoyances?

2011-11-08T07:00:00.000-05:00

I am not a fan of the sound of a ringing phone. Drives me bonkers!! What's one of your "little" annoyances?

Gossip?

2011-11-07T07:00:00.005-05:00

This is an interesting article and I wonder how long most people would last at this company? What constitutes gossip? Is it always negative or could it be the sharing of something positive? Think about the pregnancy reference in the article-would it be gossip? Would you sign the form? Do you think you could refrain from gossiping? Read on!!

Preoccupations - Nipping Workplace Gossip in the Bud http://nyti.ms/gossipnot

Turn Back

2011-11-05T08:20:00.002-04:00

I always turn my clocks back early to avoid forgetting. How many of you do this, but then forget you've done it, panic and then realize it's all okay?? Funny people!!

Poetic Justice

2011-11-03T07:00:00.001-04:00

Be encouraged if this is your current season. Justice happens!!

"For nearly a year, a former publishing colleague lived under a cloud of fear that he would be fired. A new boss in the department, for reasons unknown, began filling his personnel file with negative comments. Then, on the day my friend expected to lose his job, the new boss was fired instead."

Julie Ackerman Link

What's In Your Wallet?

2011-11-02T07:00:00.000-04:00

Yes, it's a popular tag line for a major credit card, but it should also be something that you practice knowing on a regular basis. If you're like me, you may switch out credit or debit cards for each shopping venture and keep receipts needed for exchange or returns in your wallet; or you may stay the course and never change what's in there. Seriously, how many of you are still carrying around your high school ID card or expired credit cards? At any rate, here's an easy way to protect yourself in case your wallet is lost or stolen. Make a list of the contents of your wallet and keep it in a safe place. Even better-make copies of all of the contents of your wallet and keep it in a fire safe locked box. Here's praying you won't ever need that list, but it'll help you in the process if you ever find yourself in that situation.

Credit Monitoring

2011-11-01T07:00:00.000-04:00

I've broached this subject before, but it bares repeating. Quickly, tell me ONE of your 3 credit scores. Can't do it? You may need to invest in a credit monitoring service or check with your credit card company to see if it's a free benefit or perk. There are multiple from which to choose, so I won't recommend one over the other. However, please be aware of the fine print to avoid expensive (and surprising charges). Most will offer a free trial period, but make sure to set a reminder to cancel (and then do it!!) if you decide the service is no a good fit for you. No need to throw away your hard earned money.

Smead Tag Along™ organizer

2011-10-31T07:00:00.005-04:00

How many of you have watched the shows about couponing? I have and am always fascinated (and a little scared) by the concentration and devotion of those people to save money. While you and I may not go to that “extreme” we can all benefit from saving money in this tight economy, wouldn't you agree? Couponing doesn't have to consume your life, but you should make an effort to use coupons for purchases you were planning to make anyway. One handy way to organize all of that “free money” is to use a product like Smead's Tag Along™ organizer. It's the perfect size to fit in a small purse (or in my case-a large one-who's with me?), a back pack or just to hold in your hand. It comes in 2 delicious and tranquil sounding colors (chocolate/moss and chocolate/lake blue), for the fashion forward, and includes 5 pockets and stick-on pre-printed labels (plus 5 blank labels).

To ensure you don't lose any of the “found money”, there’s a flap and elastic cord to keep everything safe. Don't limit your use to coupons, use the Tag Along™ for receipts, recipes, business cards or anything else that you need to keep in a handy, dandy, toteable format. They're so compact, you could have a few for different uses. What other ways can you envision using the Tag Along™organizer?

Products are provided free by Smead for review.

A Rarity!!

2011-10-29T17:44:00.000-04:00

An Autumn snow in October in DC-I'm loving it!!

Strengths or Weaknesses

2011-10-27T07:00:00.002-04:00

We all like to believe that we are strong individuals, and that's probably true. But, if we are honest with ourselves, we may also have more weaknesses than strengths (Pressley). For some, that may be a difficult statement to accept-but it doesn't have to be a negative reflection of self. Our areas of weakness are simply opportunities for improvement and growth!!

Money Matters

2011-10-26T07:00:00.000-04:00

Money is necessary. Money is important (to many of us). Most of us would prefer to have more than less of it. So, how are you as a money manager? Are you like E.F. Hutton where if you speak, people listen because you've done such a great job with your finances? Or, are you the one who is afraid of the ringing phone for fear it might be a bill collector? Are you the one who is wondering if they still have "poor houses" because that's where you'll live if you don't get control of your finances? Or are you somewhere in the middle? Money, like any other area of your life needs to be managed, but you can't do that if you don't have a realistic view of your finances. Whether you seek the help of a professional money manager or simply take a close, hard look at your finances on your own-just do it!!

Wasted Breath

2011-10-25T07:00:00.001-04:00

Complaining is simply wasted breath if you don't seek a solution and then use it.

Fearful??

2011-10-24T07:00:00.000-04:00

Do you fear your own greatness, thus allowing a self-fulfilling prophesy to limit your own possibilities?

Appreciation

2011-10-20T07:00:00.000-04:00

I've had many, many jobs in my life. Some I liked and some I hated, but I can truly say that each one taught me something about appreciation. One that really sticks out in my mind was the morgue. I helped families during the identification process of their loved one and every time I entered the building I knew that I would be granted the opportunity to help a family through arguably one of the most difficult times of their lives. It made me appreciate life even more. What job or profession along your journey has taught you the most and why?

Chicken or Owl?

2011-10-19T07:00:00.001-04:00

Are you a chicken or an owl? I'm an early riser and prefer to get up, get it over and get on with life. Are you like me, up with the chickens or are you more of an owl, finding it more productive to perform tasks later in the day? It's advantageous to know your "productivity personality" when planning your day. You'll be more likely to complete that daily "chore list" if you plan activities when your energy level is at its highest peak.

Six Steps to Order™ Day Six

2011-10-18T07:00:00.001-04:00

Day Six-Uniformity

For closets-use the same type of hanger (wood, space saver, etc.). It provides for a more uniform look (and saves space as well).

Six Steps to Order™ Day Five

2011-10-17T07:00:00.001-04:00

Day Five-See Clearly

Use clear containers, if possible. If not, label or create an itemized list of the contents.

Six Steps to Order™ Day Four

2011-10-13T07:00:00.000-04:00

Day Four-Don't Buy It

Don't rush to buy new things-use the items you already have and only purchase new items for organizing AFTER decluttering.

Six Steps to Order™ Day Three

2011-10-12T07:00:00.000-04:00

Day Three-Pile it Up

To prevent becoming overwhelmed, put like items into piles and work to eliminate each pile, BEFORE moving on to the next.

Six Steps to Order™ Day Two

2011-10-11T07:00:00.001-04:00

Day Two-Use or Lose

If you can't use it-donate, recycle or trash it.

Six Steps to Order™ Day One

2011-10-10T07:00:00.001-04:00

Day One-Space/Place

Look at each item in the space and decide if you really need, want or will use it. Also decide if that particular space is the proper place for it.

Six Steps to Order™

2011-10-06T07:00:00.002-04:00

For six days, I'll present an easy to follow tip/strategy that will help you get closer to a more organized you (and your space too). Remember the goal is not to finish quickly, but to implement real thinking, behavior and language changes so that these tips become new habits. Let me know how each day works for you. See you on Monday for the first one...

Opposites Attract??

2011-10-05T07:00:00.000-04:00

Remember Felix and Oscar, the "Odd Couple"? Felix was the neatnik and Oscar, well, Oscar was organizationally challenged. If it possible for two completely opposite personalities to peacefully cohabitate and not destroy the relationship? What opposites exist in your life?

Emotionally Charged

2011-10-04T07:00:00.001-04:00

Someone once told me that I never seem to get angry. While appreciated, it's not true. I experience the gamut of most human emotions, but do my best to make sure that, as much as is possible, I control my negative emotions and that they don't control me. If you could eliminate one negative emotion, which one would it be and why?

Gratitude Welcomed

2011-10-03T07:00:00.000-04:00

Often we give so much of ourselves that it seems precious little is left for us; we seem to give and give and get little in return. While gratitude is always appreciated, it may not always be given. So, take this approach: harness all of the pure joy that exists from your truly altruistic acts and know that even if you seem unappreciated, your deeds are a blessing to someone in need.

Plan for Change

2011-09-29T07:00:00.000-04:00

Change is a good thing. But, it can also send your world spinning into a chaotic state if you're not equipped to deal with your newfound responsibilities. Change is a good thing. But having a plan to insure a smoother transition for change is critical. Plan for change!!

I Did It

2011-09-28T07:00:00.000-04:00

Remember when you were a kid and you broke something, but wouldn't accept the blame for it? Well, that's part of growing up and learning to accept responsibility. However, if you're an adult and you're still exhibiting those childish ways, that's a different story. Be adult about it and just accept the blame. Just say, "I did it."

Just Deal

2011-09-27T07:00:00.003-04:00

Sometimes life is what it is. Don't stress it-just deal with it.

Assembly Required

2011-09-26T07:00:00.002-04:00

When disassembling furniture (or anything that will require reassembly), take a before picture to help you remember what it looked like assembled. This is especially helpful for electronics (like a computer), which often have multiple cords and attachments.

Think Again

2011-09-22T07:00:00.000-04:00

Think your day is rough? Turn around, look ahead, look to the left or the right, or behind you. Chances are, someone else's day may be even rougher. Practice gratitude!!

The Gift

2011-09-21T07:00:00.000-04:00

Empathy is a gift. Use it often!!

Erosion

2011-09-20T07:00:00.001-04:00

Hate erodes the soul.

No Limits!!

2011-09-19T10:10:00.004-04:00

No limits!!

Purposeful Life

2011-09-15T07:00:00.001-04:00

Life without purpose is just existing.

Racetrack Thoughts

2011-09-14T07:00:00.000-04:00

Picture it-a racetrack that goes in a circle, with no end in sight. Ever have those thoughts that are pervasive and seem to run on a continual loop in your mind? You know the ones that are sometimes productive, but can often be negative or nagging. What to do? Get them off and out of the loop!! Write them down, speak them out loud or share them with someone. That way-they're out of your mind and in the open where you can honestly conquer the racetrack thoughts.

Bad Day

2011-09-13T07:00:00.002-04:00

Having a bad day? It's okay to have an "off day" when you just don't feel your best, BUT don't let YOUR bad day affect others.

Strength

2011-09-12T07:00:00.000-04:00

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness.

Cognitive Dissonance

2011-09-08T07:00:00.000-04:00

If someone asked you for money for to use for a reason you personally wouldn't support, such as buying cigarettes or alcohol, etc., would you give it to them even if it was against your beliefs?

Behind Time

2011-09-07T07:00:00.000-04:00

Today is September 7, 2011. How many of you STILL have your calendars displaying August? Just asking.

Blaze a Path

2011-09-06T07:00:00.003-04:00

Don't get stuck in a rut, it expends too much energy. Find alternative behaviors, coping mechanisms, and thinking that will allow you to blaze a new path!!

Happy Labor Day!!

2011-09-05T07:00:00.000-04:00

Enjoy your holiday!!

Adjust Your Focus

2011-09-01T07:00:00.000-04:00

Don't fixate on the problems in your life. Instead, focus on finding the solutions.

Become

2011-08-31T07:00:00.000-04:00

I don't have to be the person I was. I don't have to remain the person I am and I can become the person I desire to be.

No Definition

2011-08-30T07:00:00.000-04:00

Thankfully my past doesn't define me. My today doesn’t restrain me. But my tomorrow inspires me.

Any Time Friend

2011-08-29T07:00:00.000-04:00

"A true friend stands with us in times of trial"... and when called, only asks , "How can I help?". Are you someone your friends would call a “2 a.m. Friend”? Anne Cetas

Heavy Load

2011-08-25T07:00:00.000-04:00

Life is hard enough with the weight of your own burdens. You increase the load when you try to carry other's burdens too. It's okay not to have the solution to everyone else's problems, as long as you are being the best supportive friend you can be.

Have To Be's

2011-08-24T07:00:00.000-04:00

Life is full of things that we may not be able to change-those “have to be's”, but it's also ripe full of things over which we have the ultimate control. So, instead of focusing on those things that “have to be”, make a list of those things that you can and would like to change and start working towards crossing them off your list.