Life management insights, strategies, hints, ideas, and tips from Dr. DClutter™.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Become
I don't have to be the person I was. I don't have to remain the person I am and I can become the person I desire to be.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
No Definition
Thankfully my past doesn't define me. My today doesn’t restrain me. But my tomorrow inspires me.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Any Time Friend
"A true friend stands with us in times of trial"... and when called, only asks , "How can I help?". Are you someone your friends would call a “2 a.m. Friend”? Anne Cetas
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Heavy Load
Life is hard enough with the weight of your own burdens. You increase the load when you try to carry other's burdens too. It's okay not to have the solution to everyone else's problems, as long as you are being the best supportive friend you can be.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Have To Be's
Life is full of things that we may not be able to change-those “have to be's”, but it's also ripe full of things over which we have the ultimate control. So, instead of focusing on those things that “have to be”, make a list of those things that you can and would like to change and start working towards crossing them off your list.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Fight
You won't win every battle, but you'll never know if you don't at least fight.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Life's List
What are the three most important “things” in your life?? I'll give you God and family. What else??
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Angry You
YOU-angry, sleepless, frustrated, plotting and vengeful. The object (person) of your anger is happy (and oblivious). What's wrong with this picture?? Redirect your energy!!
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Regrettable
Regret is a useless unless it propels you forward.
Numbers Game
Isn't it funny how numbers rule our lives if we let them?? A number on the scale can wreak a good day. A number on a paycheck can make us doubt our worth and even the number of “friends and followers” we have on social media can affect us. Don't buy into it!!
Monday, August 15, 2011
Do It
Everything you try won't be successful. Everything you don't will fail. It's worth an effort.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
B Line
Take a hint from the tiny bee. After gathering nectar, the bee flies straight back to the hive to make a deposit. You can do that too by getting straight to the point in organizing. Don't "stop and drop", instead, "make and take" (make the effort) and (take the extra step) to get your items to the proper place. An example-don't take anything off at the front door, just go straight to your room and put them away.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Weightless
Just because someone holds a grudge against you, doesn't mean you have to bear the weight.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Pet Peeves
What are three of your pet peeves?? Mine?? Ignorance in the face of knowledge, inconsiderate people and use of profanity.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Monday, August 8, 2011
Release
Release and/or remove yourself from any person or situation that is keeping you in a state of rage, hate, anger or sadness.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Joy Blocker??
Joy comes in the morning, but not if you won't let it.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Take It
If you take the time to do "it" now, you won't have to worry about "it" later.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Empathy
Be kind and empathize when faced with a difficult person.
Dr. DClutter™
Dr. DClutter™
Monday, August 1, 2011
Soft Approach
When you're hard on others, you make it harder on yourself.
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Dr. DClutter™
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About Me
- Dr. DClutter™
- Washington, DC, United States
- I am Dr. Darnita L. Payden, Executive Director/Owner of Dr. DClutter™ Life Management, a division of PreciousOnes™ LLC. I have a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology and over 20 years of experience working to help clients discover their strengths and talents. Having worked as a therapist, college professor, grief specialist and trainer, I have encountered in my journey many of the issues my clients may face. I have a sincere desire to help you find clarity, organization and independence in your life and environments. I know that life can be hectic, but I desire to help my clients bring as much order, peace and enjoyment back into their lives as is possible. What separates me from the norm? I focus on the client from a holistic perspective. I realize that most people desire a functional and an organized life, but may simply need support, understanding and information about why they have the habits or tendencies that have led to disorganization. I do not perform “quick fixes” or provide “one-size-fits-all” guidance, but I strive to provide strategies to my clients that will be life changing and useful for a lifetime. Dr. DClutter™ is a name well earned!!
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- Dr. DClutter's™ 21-Day Journey to a New You
- Declutter-Four Benefits of an Organized Life
- Clutter Makes You S.I.G.H.™
- Simplify. Simplify. How to Declutter Your Life
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