Life management insights, strategies, hints, ideas, and tips from Dr. DClutter™.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Hoarders Episode-Dolores

Missed Dolores on last night exciting episode of Hoarders? View us here!!

Hoarders-Dolores

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Path to Avenues

Life with just one path traveled is boring. I prefer multiple avenues!!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Scan and Then Can It (Sort Of)

So, I was having another one of my PWIT™ (Practice What I Teach™) moments. I was reading the latest copy of Money magazine and found a couple of valuable (and relevant) strategies that would work for me that I wanted to keep. But the rest of the magazine would end up being a space stealer and clutter-a big "No-No", so what to do?? Glad you asked. I carefully tore out the pages I wanted to keep, scanned them into an online file for money matters and recycled the magazine. Good for me, my bank account, my space and the environment. It's a goody all-around!!

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

We Remember

Our thoughts and prayers are with our Nation.

Friday, September 7, 2012

Easily Simple

Wish I could take credit for this one, but it was a gift from Ken: "Just because it's simple, doesn't mean it's easy." Keep that one in mind the next time you're faced with a challenge (that's mine).

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

What's Clutter?

When I say "clutter", you say "what". Clutter. What. Clutter. What (okay this is not a pep rally and now that phrase is stuck in my head). My purpose in this little exchange is to ask how you define "clutter". So, let loose and give me your best definition of clutter. I'll come back with my response in a day or so.

Friday, August 31, 2012

Smead’s SuperTab® Folder w/Lockit®

So, you may say, isn’t it “just” a folder? “Yes, it is a folder”, but it’s so much more. This unique design will hold up to 50 sheets of paper in each pocket and has a built-in tab to label and then file. The really nice feature is the Lockit® flap that holds those important papers securely inside!! No more dropping your presentation in front of the crowd or having to chase the papers down the street if a gusty wind blows. Nope, not any more. You’ll always look professional and prepared with Smead’s SuperTab® Two-Pocket Folders.


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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Persistence Pays Off

I was trying all morning to make hotel reservations to visit my niece @ college and was told five times that the hotel was booked due to a convention and a college event. Not so, said I. I kept calling until I got the room and the rate I wanted. Gotta keep trying folks. Not just for a hotel reservation, but in life as well. "No" does not always mean "no" in some situations, but it does if you take "it" the first time.

Monday, August 20, 2012

No Self Condemnation

People are often telling me how they "messed up", "missed the mark" or just plain "failed". Not so fast, I say. I always think of it like this. Mistakes happen and we learn from them (hopefully) and then we move on. You have many, many years to live (I pray), so a not-so-good-for-you-meal here and there, or a sad, somber or off mood there, from time to time, will happen. Be kind to yourself. God forgives us (not that you committed any sin in eating or feeling sad), but the problem comes because we don't forgive ourselves. Try it, you'll feel better!!

Friday, August 17, 2012

Motivation

Clearing out your closets improves your mood, especially when you do it because you need smaller clothes!! Plus, the warm fuzzies of donating to those in need just ups the "feel good endorphins". It's a win, win!!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Is This You??

Although this "makes light of" the issue, if this is you, take it one step (or roll) at a time and you'll be well on your way to a successful purge. You can do it!!



Thursday, August 9, 2012

Surprise Package?

If you shop so much or often that you're surprised by the contents when a package arrives, probably time to rethink your choice of retail therapy.

Friday, August 3, 2012

No Shame?

We often say that there's no shame in having mental, physical or emotional issues, but then we make those suffering from those conditions feel shameful. Let's practice what we preach.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

CBN Interview Airs Today

The interview about hoarding, with Lorie Johnson of CBN is on today-ABC Family @10am, 11pm, and 3am EST!! I would love to hear your comments after it airs. You can watch it online too, in real time.

http://event.cbn.com/700club/

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

CBN Interview Air Date

The interview that I filmed on hoarding, with Lorie Johnson of CBN, is set to air on Thursday, August 2, 2012!! The story should air right after the first commercial break (they're very precise over there and I love that, but if not, stick around for it). This information was provided by the network and may change, so as they say, check your local listings. Look for it on the ABC Family (10am, 11pm and 3am EST). It will also air on TBN at 3 pm EST, Direct TV ABC Family (Channel 311), TBN (Channel 372), NRB (Channel 378), Dish Network ABC Family (Channel 180), TBN (Channel 260) and online not long after the television airing. I'll post a link here when I get it. I'll also repost this post daily until it airs. Hope you can watch and tell everyone else you know to tune in as well, please!!

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

CBN Interview Air Date

The interview that I filmed on hoarding, with Lorie Johnson of CBN, is set to air on Thursday, August 2, 2012!! The story should air right after the first commercial break (they're very precise over there and I love that, but if not, stick around for it). This information was provided by the network and may change, so as they say, check your local listings. Look for it on the ABC Family (10am, 11pm and 3am EST). It will also air on TBN at 3 pm EST, Direct TV ABC Family (Channel 311), TBN (Channel 372), NRB (Channel 378), Dish Network ABC Family (Channel 180), TBN (Channel 260) and online not long after the television airing. I'll post a link here when I get it. I'll also repost this post daily until it airs. Hope you can watch and tell everyone else you know to tune in as well, please!!

Monday, July 30, 2012

CBN Interview Air Date

The interview that I filmed on hoarding, with Lorie Johnson of CBN, is set to air on Thursday, August 2, 2012!! The story should air right after the first commercial break (they're very precise over there and I love that, but if not, stick around for it). This information was provided by the network and may change, so as they say, check your local listings. Look for it on the ABC Family (10am, 11pm and 3am EST). It will also air on TBN at 3 pm EST, Direct TV ABC Family (Channel 311), TBN (Channel 372), NRB (Channel 378), Dish Network ABC Family (Channel 180), TBN (Channel 260) and online not long after the television airing. I'll post a link here when I get it. I'll also repost this post daily until it airs. Hope you can watch and tell everyone else you know to tune in as well, please!!

Friday, July 27, 2012

CBN Interview Air Date

The interview that I filmed last month on hoarding, with Lorie Johnson of CBN, is set to air on Thursday, August 2, 2012!! The story should air right after the first commercial break (they're very precise over there and I love that, but if not, stick around for it). This information was provided by the network and may change, so as they say, check your local listings. Look for it on the ABC Family (10am, 11pm and 3am EST). It will also air on TBN at 3 pm EST, Direct TV ABC Family (Channel 311), TBN (Channel 372), NRB (Channel 378), Dish Network ABC Family (Channel 180), TBN (Channel 260) and online not long after the television airing. I'll post a link here when I get it. I'll also repost this post daily until it airs. Hope you can watch and tell everyone else you know to tune in as well, please!!

Smead™ MO® System (My Organizer)

Smead™ helps you keep your projects under "wraps" with it's MO® (My Organizer) System. With just three easy steps, you'll be well on your way to tackling that seemingly insurmountable project.



Step one (pictured below) is a foldable file case that provides instant organization (with your effort of course). You can tame your desktop, drawer or shelf with this file case that can replace paper piles, hanging folders and binders, all while offering; portability. No need to remain tied to your filing cabinet-"Oh No"-you can simply place your folders in this file case and go!!



Step two (pictured below) is the Project Kit which includes 9 Camel colored SuperTab folders and you get easy to follow instructions and handy pre-printed and blank labels.It's "excuse-proof", just add "effort" and you're on your way to Step three!!



Once you've decluttered and organized your files, you're ready to "wrap it up" with the Case Wrap (pictured below), which holds both of the items in the previous two steps. It too is portable, but fits most file drawers, if the need arises. There you have it, an easy-to-use, portable, but fileable three-step organization system for the busy professional!!



Products are provided free by Smead for review.
The picture below is a bonus one, just for fun!!

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Avoid Avoidance

Ever notice that you spend more time avoiding a task than you actually spend completing the task? Avoidance is unnecessary!!

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