If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge.
Napoleon Hill
Do you remember hearing that if you had nothing good to say that you should say nothing at all? Well, if this is true, I know some people who should just take a vow of silence right now!! Seriously, negative speech is never the solution, but sometimes we feel the need to vent. One way to achieve the emotional or physical release you may seek when another has hurt or offended you is to write out your thoughts. But, with that comes the risk that someone else may read your words (nosey snoops). The quote suggests writing your thoughts in the sand and implies that the water can wash them away and no one will be hurt. Well, I don't know about you, but there's not much sand or water near where I live, but that doesn’t mean you can't still vent without harm. Words are gone once you give them and can't ever be "taken" back, so find creative, yet harmless ways to express your words.
Dr. DClutter™
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About Me
- Dr. DClutter™
- Washington, DC, United States
- I am Dr. Darnita L. Payden, Executive Director/Owner of Dr. DClutter™ Life Management, a division of PreciousOnes™ LLC. I have a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology and over 20 years of experience working to help clients discover their strengths and talents. Having worked as a therapist, college professor, grief specialist and trainer, I have encountered in my journey many of the issues my clients may face. I have a sincere desire to help you find clarity, organization and independence in your life and environments. I know that life can be hectic, but I desire to help my clients bring as much order, peace and enjoyment back into their lives as is possible. What separates me from the norm? I focus on the client from a holistic perspective. I realize that most people desire a functional and an organized life, but may simply need support, understanding and information about why they have the habits or tendencies that have led to disorganization. I do not perform “quick fixes” or provide “one-size-fits-all” guidance, but I strive to provide strategies to my clients that will be life changing and useful for a lifetime. Dr. DClutter™ is a name well earned!!
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